My aunt whom I care for very much has recently had to have an operation, there was a chance she would not survive it, thankfully she did. Just before the date of the operation I wrote to my aunt, telling her to be brave and how much I cared for her, it was a bit mushy but at the time I thought well, sometimes theres a time to be mushy. I included a heart shaped pendant to catch the light hoping it might cheer her up.
The pendant had gone missing from the letter and she feared someone had stolen it and so showed my uncles who also read my letter. I didn't realise everyone had been reading it and my mother told me today and warned me that I shouldn't include anything personal in any letters. I felt really gutted that other people had read the letter.
Its funny you write on a blog and it doesn't seem to matter who reads it, when people know you it feels so different.
